Friday, June 24, 2011

Money or Memories?

So far work has been this surreal type of experience for me. I've been working at the movie theater in town for a month now and I've already received a write-up. Granted, it was for forgetting to do something which is completely small and doesn't seem very important, but it is. IT REALLY IS. I forgot to approve my timecard for a certain week. I work weekends and we're supposed to approve them by the Thursday of every week. My boss even txted me and reminded me, but I forgot. Of course. A write-up for that sort of thing isn't the biggest deal in the world so I'm good. I will recover by being the most enthusiastic and amazingly patient and customer-friendly employee out there! Well, maybe not, but I can try.

So what was my point in discussing boring old work? Oh yeah, I am starting to look forward to work tonight. Reason being that it will keep my mind off the fact that my family is in Tahoe without me. That fact doesn't bother me as much as the fact that I'd rather just be with them, even if it was just at home. Family vacations have been something that I never miss. I would rather visit aunts and uncles and both my grandmas than spend a day shopping, even at a bookstore(gasp!). Yeah, it's that important to me. So, with the coming of a job into my life and summer commencing, I am stuck missing a most sacred event in my life. A trip to Tahoe is nothing. On its own, it is nothing. The trip that I am missing right now is made of sweet, probably hilarious memories that I will never know, places and figures where something happened but I won't be filled in on it. Last night, my dear daddy called me and told me what they did. Nothing exciting: walked down to the beach just to look at it, walked around probably for close to an hour looking for a place to eat and then eventually ended up eating at the hotel (so typically our family because apparently, we have a hard time deciding what to eat half the time, another trip memory: San Luis Obispo at 11 pm and I don't even remember where we ended up eating). Anyway, day one and I'm already missing my family. What a softy.

Oh yeah! Another plan/trip that work ruined: visiting my grandma for two weeks or more, and I even marked pages in a vegan cookbook! I know, I know. The money will be worth it, but I can't imagine what the rest of the individuals in the working world end up losing every year? Money, maybe not. But memories and family time are sometimes just as, if not more, valuable. This is why I wouldn't mind being a teacher, just get a substitute! hehe

3 comments:

  1. You crack us up! Such drama...believe me, there weren't too many memories made last night...my snoring while Dad & Erica are watching a movie? I think that's a memory you can probably live without. It is strange without you and Bekah here, but that's part of life with kids that grow up, get jobs, even move away...I think it would be awesome if all three of you became teachers - then you'd all have the summers off to spend with your old and decrepit parents!

    Make some fun memories with your bestie! She's probably LOVING having another sibling to share things with this weekend.

    I'll keep posting some things on Facebook as I can so you can at least vicariously be here!

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  2. JESSIE!!! you are such a good writer, dear one - keep posting these blogs, okay? and you are absolutely correct about the "missing memory-making" aspect of growing up. I went through similar angst when I went away to college. I wanted to leave home (could NOT wait, as a matter of fact), but was blubbering like a baby when facing the fact that I was LEAVING...

    The sad thing about growing up is exactly what you have verbalized here, but "this too shall pass" (I eventually got over the angst and you will too) and you'll be making memories ON THE JOB and beyond that the family will be missing out on - LOL!

    And you'd better get OVER HERE for at least a 3-day stretch, woman! We got some vegan cooking to do together! xoxoxoxxxGma

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  3. lol oh my goodness gracious, dear grandmother of my heart! I am determined as well as you are to visit you this summer, so I will be checking my work schedule every Wednesday and when my calendar is not full of orthodontist appointments or youth group outings, I will call you up and hopefully you can pencil me in at the last minute. So far, I've only been working weekends, which is fine with me, but I have no idea what my schedule looks like more than three days ahead of time. xoxoxoxo

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